phxangel2774 asked:
My mother is an alcoholic as well as drinks herself in to a deep sleep damn near…she starts at around 7am as well as is dipsomaniac prior to noon as well as does this all day until time to go to bed around 9pm…she is 5 foot high weighs may be 100lbs…..she can splash roughly an eighteen container aday of beer…..she’s irritating as well as beligerant when she’s drunk….I have an 8 year aged who adores his nana…and i’m awaiting an additional son in a integrate months…..i told her a brand new baby will not be around her as prolonged as she is still drinking….my son visits her though im wondering if i should not let him go over any more until she gets help….i’ve attempted to take her to detox though she won’t go..she won’t go to AA or anything….she doesnt consider she has a complaint as well as upon tip of which she is receiving Xanax now….She is Hep C certain as well as her chemical substance levels have been towering (im certain she didnt discuss it her alloy about her drinking, since he prescribed a xanax)….i dont know what to do…she is tied together though her busband drinks additionally (not similar to her).
her father refuses to consider she has a complaint ( we consider he doesnt wish to remove her, so he turns a blind eye)I adore her though i can’t mount to be around her or speak to her upon a phone…Should i uncover a little difficult adore as well as discuss it her until she gets assistance my kids won’t be on vacation her?? I’m ready to only rinse my hands of her!!!
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My mother is an alcoholic as well as drinks herself in to a deep sleep damn near…she starts at around 7am as well as is dipsomaniac prior to noon as well as does this all day until time to go to bed around 9pm…she is 5 foot high weighs may be 100lbs…..she can splash roughly an eighteen container aday of beer…..she’s irritating as well as beligerant when she’s drunk….I have an 8 year aged who adores his nana…and i’m awaiting an additional son in a integrate months…..i told her a brand new baby will not be around her as prolonged as she is still drinking….my son visits her though im wondering if i should not let him go over any more until she gets help….i’ve attempted to take her to detox though she won’t go..she won’t go to AA or anything….she doesnt consider she has a complaint as well as upon tip of which she is receiving Xanax now….She is Hep C certain as well as her chemical substance levels have been towering (im certain she didnt discuss it her alloy about her drinking, since he prescribed a xanax)….i dont know what to do…she is tied together though her busband drinks additionally (not similar to her).
her father refuses to consider she has a complaint ( we consider he doesnt wish to remove her, so he turns a blind eye)I adore her though i can’t mount to be around her or speak to her upon a phone…Should i uncover a little difficult adore as well as discuss it her until she gets assistance my kids won’t be on vacation her?? I’m ready to only rinse my hands of her!!!
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Sad but the only thing you can do is protect your family. Asking her to choose between the bottle and family – the bottle will win.
You can’t make her get help, and her husband isn’t helping any either. Just be ready for the outcome.
I dated a woman who was in AA and secretly drinking still. I kept telling her that I would leave her if she didn’t stop. She didn’t stop. I left. A year later she drank herself to death.
It was a sad outcome for such a beautiful person, but that was unfortunately the choice she made. The only thing I could do about it is not let myself be dragged down by it along with her.
I cry for her and the loss her family had to suffer, but if Your mother doesn’t get help on her own – there is nothing you can do about it. At least nothing I know of.
Good Luck with your new baby, and keep you and yours safe.
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I wouldn’t let my son anywhere near her. The thing is, you can’t change her or force her to change. I think perhaps you should find an al-anon group in your area. I know that you are in a lot of pain over this. There, you will meet others who have had to deal with the same thing and you can get the support you need. Also, you can call her doctor and inform him of her drinking but she may just find another doctor and not tell you about it.
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Never allow your children to be exposed to someone who drinks excessively, regardless of their relationship to you. It is unfortunate that your mother refuses to seek help; however, this is not a problem you can solve. Recovery is only possible when your mother admits she is an alcoholic and voluntarily seeks help. Unless your mother is sober, your children should not be with her under any circumstance.
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If she decides to get help, you might try these services…
Alcohol/Drug Abuse Hotline
1-800-333-4444
Information and Resources
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Alcoholics Anonymous
Grand Central Station
P.O. Box 459
New York, N.Y. 10163
(212)-870-3400
“Alcoholics Anonymous is a fellowship of men and women who share their experience, strength and hope with each other that they may solve their common problem and help others to recover from alcoholism. The only requirement for membership is a desire to stop drinking. There are no dues or fees for AA membership; we are self-supporting through our own contributions. AA is not allied with any sect, denomination, politics, organization or institution; does not wish to engage in any controversy, neither endorses nor opposes any causes. Our primary purpose is to stay sober and help other alcoholics to achieve sobriety.”
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American Council on Alcoholism Hotline
1-800-527-5344
Help for Alcoholism